Comitan is a medium size town in the Mexican state of Chiapas, near the Guatemala border. It's proximity made it the obvious choice for Bruce and me to try when we decided to leave Guatemala for Mexico. I had read about it in a travel blog; it sounded worth a visit.
A day's bus ride, cross the border, catch a van on the other side, another hour's ride, and we were in Comitan. The full story of our Guatemala/Comitan expat experience is in my book, We Burned Our Boats.
Suffice it to say that we fell in love with Comitan and found our home the next day. It came about through local networking. In this case, we asked a taxi driver about places for rent. We hired him the next day to take us around, and this apartment was perfect.Nice neighborhood near a park. Furnished with good furniture and appliances, spotlesly clean with a wall of windows letting in plenty of natural light. And affordable enough for us although high for locals. The landlady shaved a little off the price with a six-month lease.
We loved this apartment, and we loved this town. We made good friends among the local members of our church, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, which has a very strong presence all through LATAM. These were our communities both in Panajachel, Guatemala and in Comitan.
We lived in Comitan for nine months, not as long as we had hoped, but we had business to take care of in the States. Little did we know that two years later, Bruce would be gone. And my next flight to Mexico would be as a widow in grief, seeking solace in the country where we had been so happy.


Bittersweet to return to a place where you had been so happy with your husband.
ReplyDeleteYes, it really is, which is why I've not gone back to live in Comitan. Or Guatemala.
DeleteMore and more, you're making me want to visit Mexico.
ReplyDeleteI hope you do! It's a beautiful country that gets a bad rap in the states, not sure why. I've never felt unsafe anywhere I've lived.
DeleteSo sorry about being a widow. This is bittesweet.
ReplyDeleteThank you. I don't recommend it to anyone.
DeleteI get that. I have friends who have lost theirs and it sucks.
DeleteWhat an adventure. Mexico has my heart.
ReplyDeleteI bet Bruce always watches over you as you carry him along in your heart with all your travels.
I feel that, too.
DeleteA lovely photo of your husband Karen. That sounds like a wonderful time in your life. I don't know much of that part of the world other than what I have read.
ReplyDeleteGood to learn about the practicalities in traveling between countries and how to find long term rentals. Is the language difference a problem or is there always someone around that speaks English?
ReplyDeleteThe language difference can definitely be a problem when dealing with a local rental that requires a lot of paperwork. i speak well enough Spanish for daily trade but when it gets complicated with official language, that's when it gets tricky. For this apartment, it was fairly simple, no fancy contract.
DeleteSounds like a nice town.
ReplyDeleteHi Karen - we simply never know what's round the corner ... and you and Bruce were so together - I feel for you. Mexico I'd love to visit ... I saw film about Diana Kennedy - the "Mexican culinary anthropologist" - who I wrote about ... fascinating woman who loved Mexico too. The A-Z on Mexico is great: opening the door for us to visit ... cheers Hilary
ReplyDeleteI hope these memories bring smiles of fond times, and not just tears.
ReplyDeleteYou'll always carry the Bruce of then. Carry and Care are also C words 🩷
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